Many men are willing to poke their woman and bloom her in a mediocre way, sharing a few orgasms and a few emotional moments of bonding before going over tomorrow’s schedule. Many men are willing to poke the world and bloom it in a mediocre way, making a few bucks and contributing enough betterment so they don’t feel like their life is a total waste.

But very few men are willing to do the deed for real, to use everything they’ve got to liberate their woman and the world into the deepest possible truth, love, and openness. Few men are willing to give their deepest genius, their true endowment, the poetry of their very being, with every thrust of sex and life. Most men are limpened with doubts and uncertainties. Or they hold back their true drive because of fear. So they diddle their woman and the world just enough to extract the pleasure and comfort they need to assuage their nagging sense of falsity and incompleteness.

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David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man

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Human beings are such knotted, desperate pieces of work- it’s a rare thing to know one completely, to the core, and still love him.

- Dean Koontz, Your Heart Belongs to Me (via larmoyante)

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A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person the best version of themselves.

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Beyond our ideas of right-doing and wrong-doing,
there is a field. I’ll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass,
the world is too full to talk about.
Ideas, language, even the phrase each other,
doesn’t make any sense.

- Rumi

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When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it’s really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do.

- Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture  (via napsie)

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